[sei] - How to Stop Scrolling Exactly When You Mean To
How to Stop Scrolling Exactly When You Mean To Sahar Yousef via The Genius Series Big Tech borrowed Big Food's recipe to keep you hooked. Here's how to reverse it. You sit down on the couch. You start scrolling. Just like that, an hour goes by. You think, “I should stop and get up.” Instead, you keep scrolling. Sahar Yousef is a cognitive neuroscientist and lecturer at UC Berkeley's Haas School of Business. During her PhD, tech companies started reaching out. They wanted her help making their...
about 15 hours ago • 2 min read[sei] - How to Think Your Way Out of Any Problem
How to Think Your Way Out of Any Problem Photo via FlightStory This is a comprehensive guide to high agency and the mind behind it. "High agency" has been a trending term for a while now. It shows up in LinkedIn hiring threads, self-improvement podcasts, and of course, it’s all over tech Twitter. It's become one of those phrases people nod along to without ever defining. And when a concept gets that popular, it usually gets diluted into nothing. George Mack knows this all too well. He...
8 days ago • 5 min read[sei] - How to Make Your Writing Impossible to Ignore
How to Make Your Writing Impossible to Ignore Photo by Jay Yang via Substack This is a comprehensive guide to the kind of writing that earns attention. In school, we were taught to prove ourselves on the page. Big words, long sentences; the kind of density that signals effort. A teacher sat at the front of the room, paid to read every word with a red pen in hand. She rewarded complexity and prose. We learned the lesson well. Then we graduated, and the rules flipped. Our cover letters got...
15 days ago • 3 min read[sei] - How to Use the Science of Happiness Today
How to Use the Science of Happiness Today Photo by Jenny Sherman via Business Insider This is a comprehensive guide to a diet of enjoyment, satisfaction, and meaning. We've gotten pretty good at avoiding hard things. The difficult conversation, the uncertain path, the goal that might not work out. We've learned to treat discomfort as a warning sign, something to fix or escape. But what if the friction is the point? Dr. Arthur Brooks spent years studying what makes people happy. He's taught at...
21 days ago • 3 min readHow to Turn Fear Into Usable Fuel
How to Turn Fear Into Usable Fuel Photo by John Mottern/AFP via Getty Images This is a comprehensive guide to walking right towards what scares you. It's tempting to assume people who perform under pressure have conquered their nerves. That somewhere along the way, they found a switch that turned off the trembling hands and racing thoughts. But the most dangerous man in boxing history tells a different story. Mike Tyson, the fighter who made opponents quit before the first punch landed, spent...
29 days ago • 3 min readHow to Perform When Everything Is on the Line
[sei] [the genius filter] How to Perform When Everything Is on the Line This is a comprehensive guide to prevent the choke in high-pressure moments. You've done the work. You've studied the company, rehearsed your answers, prepared for every question they could possibly throw at you. Then you sit down across from the interviewer, and your mind goes blank. This is the job you've been chasing for months, the opportunity that felt like it could finally change your trajectory, and now you can't...
about 1 month ago • 4 min readHow to Transform True Envy Into Fuel
[sei] [the genius filter] How to Transform True Envy Into Fuel This is a comprehensive guide to turning comparison into motivation. Imagine someone in your life telling you their good news. A coworker gets the promotion you wanted. Someone from your graduating class is buying a house in a neighborhood you can’t afford. Your cousin’s getting married; your sister’s having a baby. When you hear it, you feel a flutter in your chest. It’s not happiness for them, though you might perform that on...
about 1 month ago • 5 min readHow to Ask For What You Actually Need
[sei] [the genius filter] How to Ask For What You Actually Need This is a comprehensive guide to overcoming the fear of asking. A kind of curse plagues capable people. They’ll stay late at the office wrestling with a problem that a colleague solved last month, or spend a weekend agonizing over a decision a single phone call could clarify. Either way, they'll burn hours on a task that would take ten minutes if they admitted they needed help. It’s a pattern so common it barely registers as a...
about 2 months ago • 4 min readHow to Stop Undermining Your Own Success
[sei] [the genius filter] How to Stop Undermining Your Own Success This is a comprehensive guide to understanding self-sabotage. The night before a high-stakes presentation, after weeks of preparation, you get the sudden urge for chaos. You stay up until 2 a.m. scrolling brainrot content, pour a drink you didn't need, or pick a fight with someone close to you over something that could have waited until next week. By morning, you're operating at sixty percent capacity, and if things go poorly,...
about 2 months ago • 5 min readHow to Take Risks Without Being Reckless
[sei] [the genius filter] How to Take Risks Without Falling into Recklessness This is a comprehensive guide to calculated courage. You're staring at the resignation letter you drafted three months ago. The cursor blinks as your finger hovers over send. You've run the numbers, talked to friends, called your mom, and lost plenty of sleep coming to this conclusion. And still, you close the laptop. ‘Tomorrow’, you tell yourself, when you have more clarity. This is how most consequential decisions...
2 months ago • 5 min read