[the spark]
The Third Door
Alex Banayan noticed something strange while studying how people broke into their fields. The stories never followed the same script, but they shared the same pattern. There were always three ways in.
The first door was the main entrance, where most people waited in line, hoping to be chosen. The second door was the VIP entrance, reserved for those with connections or privilege.
And then there was the third door—the unmarked side entrance that required creativity, nerve, and persistence.
Banayan argues that every success story, from business to art, is built on finding that third door. It's never obvious, and it's never handed over. It has to be created.
Spielberg’s teenage stunt at Universal Studios is a perfect example. He didn’t have credentials or connections. What he had was the willingness to act like he belonged until he did. That was his third door.
The method is simple to describe, but hard to live by. It means refusing to wait in line, refusing to envy the VIPs, and instead searching for the hidden entrance no one else is looking for.
There's always another way in.