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[the genius filter]

Shut Up and Hit the Ball

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We spend a lot of time trying to get better.

More reps, more discipline, more instruction.

But what if trying harder is part of the problem?

Timothy Gallwey’s The Inner Game of Tennis flipped the script on performance. Instead of pushing for more, he suggested we step back. Quiet the internal coach. Focus on what’s actually happening. Let the body do what it already knows how to do.

He called it relaxed concentration. Today, we might call it getting out of your own way.

This issue breaks down Gallwey’s counterintuitive path to mastery and how your biggest gains might start when your Mental Self learns to stop talking.

[the spark]

Let the Body Work

After years of coaching tennis, Gallwey noticed something strange: the harder his students tried to follow instructions, the worse they got.

It wasn't for lack of effort, his students were actually overdoing it. Overthinking every movement, narrating each flaw, and crowding their own instincts out of the moment.

So he flipped his coaching style..

Instead of barking corrections, he told them to observe without judgment. Say “bounce” when the ball hit the court. Say “hit” when it met the racket. No tips or tweaks, just awareness.

And when players stopped evaluating every shot, something shifted. They got better. Faster. Without being told how.

The body started to correct itself. Without being micromanaged. Without being told it was wrong.

Gallwey called this relaxed concentration: A state where you stop trying to force progress and start letting your built-in intelligence take over.

Gallwey’s point wasn't that effort is bad, just that too much effort in the wrong place makes things worse. Let the body do what it already knows how to do. Let the mind be quiet enough to watch.
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Trust yourself.

[the science]
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Quiet Mind, Clear Performance

In 2021, neuroscientists Sucharit Katyal and Philippe Goldin investigated how nonjudgmental awareness changes the way the brain processes experience.

Using EEG, they studied experienced meditators and found that when participants shifted into a state of nonjudgmental observation, activity in the brain changed. Specifically, communication between the visual cortex and areas tied to evaluation, memory, and emotion was reduced. In this state, their brains became quieter, more focused, and less reactive.

Katyal and Goldin’s research offers a neurological explanation for Gallwey’s insight. A quieter mind allows the body to perform. Not by pushing harder, but by removing the noise that blocks natural ability. Putting judgment and evaluation aside actually speeds up learning.

In essence, Katyal and Goldin’s work confirms what Gallwey advocated: trust in your body's natural intelligence and let go of the mental noise.

[the takeaways]

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1) Ease Off the Gas​
​Trying harder isn’t always the answer. Gallwey saw it on the court, and neuroscience backs it up. Let effort follow awareness. Performance won't improve just by forcing it.

2) Pay Attention, Don’t Judge​
​Notice what’s happening without commentary. Katyal and Goldin showed that nonjudgmental observation quiets the brain’s noise and sharpens perception. That’s what clears the path for growth.

3) Let the Body Catch Up​
​Your brain is awesome, but it can slow you down. Stop micromanaging every move. Trust your instincts and let your system recalibrate through action, not overanalysis.

4) Focus on the Process​
​You’re not defined by how well you do on any given day. What matters is whether you’re present enough to learn. Detach from outcomes and stay with the work.

5) Make Space to Improve​
​You can’t grow when your mind is crowded. Clear a little mental room. Watch the ball and mind the bounce. Take careful observation for observation's sake, not with any immediate goal in mind.