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How To Think For Yourself


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How To Think For Yourself

Most people aren’t thinking. They’re reacting.

We live in a world of endless input—tweets, headlines, hot takes. But consuming information isn’t the same as thinking. Real thinking requires something few people make time for: solitude.

In 2009, former Yale professor William Deresiewicz delivered a speech at West Point with a bold claim: solitude isn’t a retreat from leadership—it’s the foundation of it. Without space to think, you don’t lead. You follow. You react. You let others set the terms of your life.

This issue of The Genius Filter breaks down Deresiewicz’s framework for independent thought, why it matters, and what science says about making better decisions.

[the spark]

Solitude and Leadership

A thinker isn’t someone who knows all the answers. It’s someone who questions everything.

In 2009, William Deresiewicz gave a speech at West Point titled Solitude and Leadership, arguing that leadership isn’t about intelligence or hard work—it’s about the ability to think for yourself. And to do that, you have to stop outsourcing your mind.

“"What makes someone a thinker is being able to think things through for themselves. And because they can, they have the confidence, the courage, to argue for their ideas even when they aren’t popular.”

Deresiewicz’s framework for independent thought:

1) Concentrate on one thing. Deep work isn’t possible in 20-second bursts. You have to slow down.

2) Don’t trust your first thought. It’s probably someone else’s. Sit with it. Push past the obvious.

3) Only you have the answers. No external system can tell you what matters. You have to listen to yourself.

4) Confront your problems. Stop drowning in distractions. Face the hard questions head-on.

5) Find your own reality. If you never sit alone with your thoughts, you’ll never know which ones are truly yours.

Thinking for yourself isn’t easy. It’s uncomfortable, messy, and inconvenient. But it’s also the only way to break free from the script and actually lead.

[the science]

Your brain isn’t built for deep thinking—it’s built for speed.

Nobel laureate Daniel Kahneman, author of Thinking, Fast and Slow, revealed that the mind operates on two systems:

  • System 1 is fast, automatic, and relies on intuition. It’s great for survival but terrible at careful reasoning.
  • System 2 is slow, deliberate, and effortful—the mode of thinking required for real insight.

Most people default to System 1, reacting instead of reflecting, following mental shortcuts instead of questioning them. Kahneman’s research shows that true independent thinking demands a shift into System 2—but that shift takes effort. It requires solitude, focus, and a willingness to sit with uncomfortable thoughts.

When you slow down, step away from distractions, and engage System 2, you override cognitive biases and break free from the herd mentality. Whether it’s second-guessing a gut reaction or rethinking a widely accepted idea, deliberate thought forces you to challenge assumptions instead of echoing them.

Kahneman’s work proves what Deresiewicz argued in Solitude and Leadership: leadership isn’t about knowing the most, working the hardest, or reacting the fastest. It’s about resisting the easy answer—long enough to find the right one.

[the takeaways]

1) Think on Paper

Set a 10-minute timer and write about a problem or idea without stopping. No Googling, no distractions. Deresiewicz argued that solitude fuels independent thought, and Kahneman showed that writing forces your brain into slow, deliberate thinking.

2) Rewrite One Assumption

Take a belief—about work, relationships, or the world—and rewrite it from the opposite perspective. Most people don’t think, they repeat. Challenging your own beliefs helps override bias and engage in real thought.

3) Unplug and Observe

Spend 30 minutes in public without your phone. Watch how people move, interact, and behave. Deresiewicz said leadership requires seeing what others miss, and Kahneman showed that deep thinking starts with paying attention.

Stay tuned for next week’s newsletter to get one step closer to finding your genius.

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