[the spark]
Reclaiming Your Attention
At Google, Tristan Harris helped engineers test which shade of red made people click faster.
The goal wasn’t to help users. It was to keep them there. Every scroll, tap, and notification was tuned to stretch one number—time on the device.
He saw how this constant pull reshapes the mind. Each flick of the thumb trains the brain to expect reward, fragmenting focus until silence feels unbearable. The app stops being a tool and starts shaping the person using it.
Harris left to build something different. Through the Center for Humane Technology, he argues that the fix begins with awareness. Once you see how design steers behavior, you can start steering back.
But it’s not easy.
The way out requires designing friction back into our digital lives. That might mean:
- Removing app icons from your home screen.
- Scheduling 90-minute distraction-free blocks where devices stay in another room.
- Turning off all non-essential notifications to reclaim control over your attention triggers.
- Keeping your phone out of reach when you work.
- Turning off the pings, bips, and boops that bombard you all day.
- Replacing one hour of scrolling with one hour of making.
The process is alienating, arduous, and often infuriating. It’s also worth it.
Because when we lose our attention, we lose the ability to choose anything at all.